Today’s show felt like a group exhale. Lawrence and I opened with our usual chaos — Queen analysis, the joys of being Substack shut-ins, and a detour praising
’s daughter’s adorable fan art — before welcoming career coach Lindsay Lyman, who fits into the Whateververse with suspicious ease.Lindsay introduced herself the way only someone who has lived through the corporate grinder can: with humor, receipts, and a deep understanding of how a job can quietly deplete your humanity. She spent 20 years in tech, lived through restructurings, misogynistic leaders, “mysterious” eliminations of senior women, and the classic HR illusion: “We’re here to support you (but actually we work for the company).”
Her turning point came when she hired a coach during a brutal stretch — and realized the support she needed didn’t exist inside the system that was harming her. That’s what pushed her into coaching: helping people who are “trying to be okay while things are not okay.”
We talked openly about the toxicity in corporate culture:
– the gaslighting
– the performative wellness
– the managers angry you’re not online at 2 a.m.
– the post-COVID disconnection
– the instability created by shifting tech priorities and layoffs
And most of all, we’ve forgotten the basics of being human: sleep, nutrition, movement, sunlight, connection.
We wrapped with Lindsay outlining her coaching work and making everyone feel a little more human, a little less trapped, and a lot more seen.
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