I tried to get along with my ex, but he rejected all overtures. So I don’t talk to him at all, ever. He is dead to me.
We divorced very suddenly after 15 years of marriage and two children. It was 100 percent his choice but he has always acted as if I did something unforgivable to him.
There is no dealing with some people. There just isn’t.
I can relate to this - somewhat. It was my choice to leave so naturally he was angry…for a WHILE. So for 2 years I endured hateful angry texts which also caused me to respond in ways I felt were not me. Thankfully that passed as most said it would but ugh, 2 years of that after many years of being unhappy in my marriage was rough. We have a decent relationship - we get together for the kids birthdays and events but I would not think to celebrate HIS birthday with him or have him celebrate mine. Regardless, having an amicable divorce is definitely beneficial for all.
I tried to get along with my ex, but he rejected all overtures. So I don’t talk to him at all, ever. He is dead to me.
We divorced very suddenly after 15 years of marriage and two children. It was 100 percent his choice but he has always acted as if I did something unforgivable to him.
There is no dealing with some people. There just isn’t.
I can relate to this - somewhat. It was my choice to leave so naturally he was angry…for a WHILE. So for 2 years I endured hateful angry texts which also caused me to respond in ways I felt were not me. Thankfully that passed as most said it would but ugh, 2 years of that after many years of being unhappy in my marriage was rough. We have a decent relationship - we get together for the kids birthdays and events but I would not think to celebrate HIS birthday with him or have him celebrate mine. Regardless, having an amicable divorce is definitely beneficial for all.