I never felt like “not into one night stands” was an identity. I don’t know if I’d qualify as “demisexual” either(and, being married, it’s sort of a moot point), but if so the word is descriptive, not definitive. Others may feel differently about how the word applies to them and I won’t argue.
Personally, I would say the evening went well. Time to find out if you’ve found somebody you can hang out with, or something more.
The way you describe the demisexual feelings fits my own experience pretty well. I haven't got to the first date part yet but have gotten back into online dating - this time with men - and wow, that's a different experience... Either I'm very different from most women or most men have absolutely no clue what a woman wants. There are some real cuties and gentlemen out there, though. (And no guys, "gentleman" != prudish)
I never felt like “not into one night stands” was an identity. I don’t know if I’d qualify as “demisexual” either(and, being married, it’s sort of a moot point), but if so the word is descriptive, not definitive. Others may feel differently about how the word applies to them and I won’t argue.
Personally, I would say the evening went well. Time to find out if you’ve found somebody you can hang out with, or something more.
The way you describe the demisexual feelings fits my own experience pretty well. I haven't got to the first date part yet but have gotten back into online dating - this time with men - and wow, that's a different experience... Either I'm very different from most women or most men have absolutely no clue what a woman wants. There are some real cuties and gentlemen out there, though. (And no guys, "gentleman" != prudish)
I’m glad you’re finding cuties and gentlemen! I’ve found them to be few and far between… but they do exist!
Me too! Man my wife didn’t like that at all.
Hah! You’re hilarious. 😊